Why I Chose to Go to Uni at Nearly 30 to Become a Midwife — Showing My Daughters What Strength and Advocacy Look Like

When I was younger, the idea of going to university seemed like a far-off, almost impossible dream. Life happened — kids, responsibilities, the beautiful chaos of motherhood — and university felt like something other people did, not me.

But as my daughters grew, so did my determination. I wanted to show them something powerful: that it’s never too late to chase your dreams. That strength isn’t just about muscle or bravado, but about standing up for what you believe in and becoming a voice for others.

🌟 Why Midwifery?

Choosing to become a midwife wasn’t just about a career change. It was about passion, purpose, and wanting to make a real difference in people’s lives. Midwives are advocates, protectors, and supporters during some of the most vulnerable, powerful moments a person can experience.

I want my daughters to see what it means to care fiercely, to listen deeply, and to fight for better care and respect — especially for women, families, and those whose voices often go unheard.

💪 Going to Uni at Nearly 30: The Real Deal

Starting university as a nearly 30-year-old mum was scary. The juggling act of study, family, and everything else sometimes felt overwhelming. I wasn’t the typical student — I had bills, kids, and life experience that made the classroom feel very different.

But it also gave me grit. I wasn’t just learning for me; I was learning to show my daughters that setbacks, fear, and doubt don’t get to decide your story.

👧 What I Hope My Daughters Learn

• You’re never too old to start something new. Life doesn’t have a deadline.
• Strength is about persistence. Showing up, even when it’s hard, is brave.
• Advocacy matters. Use your voice to stand up for others — especially when it feels uncomfortable.
• Passion fuels change. Find what lights you up and follow it fiercely.

🌈 Final Thoughts

Going back to university to become a midwife has been one of the hardest and most rewarding things I’ve ever done. It’s more than a degree — it’s a message to my daughters that their dreams are valid, their voices are powerful, and their strength is limitless.

If you’re thinking about making a big change later in life — whether it’s study, a new job, or a passion project — remember: your story isn’t over. It’s just getting started.